There was a Lee ad that ran in Australia about 5 years ago. It had the tag line 'Stand Out. Fit In.' I really liked it. This is a perennial internal debate people play in their minds when consuming brands. Whatever the category people are playing a balancing act of wanting to fit in, conform and ultimately gain peer acceptance. Whilst also, wanting to stand out, express themselves, and be recognised as an independent being.
This principle is easy to understand in fashion - and leads to tribes of people all looking different from everyone else, but very similar to one another. Goths, Skaters, and Fashionistas are all standing out, yet fitting in. However, the principle can be generalised to other categories and perhaps even applies when we choose meals in a restaurant. For some reason someone felt compelled to study this. At the Journal of Consumer Behaviour a study has found that when we order food in a restaurant in groups we do the following:
1. Tend to seek variety when making initial orders - that is we consider ordering things other people are not.
2. Then we gravitate toward similar choices as others - that is we begin to conform with everyone else.
2. Then we gravitate toward similar choices as others - that is we begin to conform with everyone else.
3. And then, as the group consensus grows, we move away from popular choices and get our own thing anyway.
I love this study, and although sad to say reflects the way I go about choosing meals in a restaurant. The study goes into more detail about what % of people need to consider ordering the same thing before the need to stand out kicks in. However, to read more and ensure I have not misrepresented the original please visit it when published in full as these findings were taken from the press release.
Next time your ordering a meal, or putting on your favourite jeans be sure to ask yourself 'Is this choice going to help me conform, whilst expressing my individuality'.... or perhaps don't!
