KIM DUTHIE is the 17 year old schoolgirl of St Kilda footy players photo fame / shame. It’s a story that puts nearly all involved to shame. There are four key players; Broadcast Media, Social Media, Kim Duthie, and us. All have played a role in her dramatic fall from a normal life (I can only imagine how aspirational normal feels when you don’t have it). All may be responsible for even more tragedy if we don’t show some restraint.
The way I see it working is like this. A psychologically unwell girl demands attention. Broadcast media happily obliges parading her (and family) in a cage through the streets on a Sunday night. The social media crew with their front row seats hurl vomit, vitriol and metaphorical shit at the poor girl. The rest of us stand and watch tut tutting. Then psychologically damaged girl – now smeared in the towns vitriol, but with the attention she craves demands it happens again, and again broadcast media provides the platform, social media the abuse and we all shrug our shoulders. So what can the key players do to stop it happening again (and again)?
Social media? I’ve written about the damaging impact of social media here. I’ve suggested cyber-bullying needs to be checked. She has received countless death threats, and the most damaging comments I could ever imagine attacking everything from the way she looks, her parents, to her morals. Check it online if you want to be mortified. To the people making these postings. There are a few things to ask yourself a) where is your anger coming from?, b) think about the harm you’re doing to another human being (are you proud of your actions?), c) show some compassion for someone who is not well. Above all again show some restraint. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.
Finally there is US, and our mistaken belief that people have complete control over their own destiny. We don't. Nobody is born saying I want to lead a tragic, lonely, dysfunctional life. People make decisions with the information and resources they have available – and yes they make bad ones. People don’t learn from mistakes – we learn from success. Hence the people making the mistakes will keep on making them – much to the frustration of the working class shock jocks who think ‘well I’ve made it, so should they’.
We’ve paraded Kim in front of the masses. Smeared her in vitriol and spat her out. She needs help - this will be difficult and complex to implement. Those who have exploited her / harmed her the most are probably in the best position to put something in place. Think they will?

